Instead of saying: “Can’t do this. Too hard”, say: “It might take some time but I’ll eventually figure this out”. The words we use do matter
A better question than “why does it always happen to me?” would be, “what can I learn from this?”. The words we use do matter.
Beliefs drive behavior. Behavior drives results. What do you need to believe in order to achieve your desired results?
Emotions are simply expressions of the meaning you attach to your life experiences. Change the meaning, change the emotion.
Quite often being selfish is the most unselfish thing you can do. The world needs you with full and complete vigor.