Putting yourself first every so often benefits the whole. Learn to say a (loving) “No”.

Picture this: You're on a plane, settling into your seat, and the flight attendant begins the safety demonstration. They get to the part about the oxygen masks and say, "In case of an emergency, put your own mask on first before helping others." It seems counterintuitive, right? But there's deep wisdom here that applies far beyond the confines of an aircraft cabin.

Putting yourself first isn't about being selfish or neglecting others. It's about recognizing that to be of service to those around you, you need to be in a good place yourself. It's like trying to fill cups from an empty pitcher; no matter how much you try, it just won't work. You need to replenish your own reserves so you can give to others without depleting yourself.

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Consider the story of Alex, a dedicated teacher passionate about making a difference in his students' lives. He worked long hours, always said yes to extra duties, and rarely took time for himself. Over time, Alex began to feel burnt out, his enthusiasm dwindling and his patience wearing thin. Realizing something had to change, Alex started to set boundaries. He learned to say a (loving) "No" to requests that would overextend him. This wasn't easy at first; he worried about letting people down. But the impact was profound. With more time for self-care, Alex's energy levels soared. He became more present and effective in the classroom, and his students benefited from a happier, more engaged teacher.

Alex's story illustrates a simple truth: taking care of yourself isn't just good for you; it's a gift to those around you. When you're well-rested, centered, and happy, you bring your best self to your interactions with others. You're more patient, more generous, and more effective in everything you do.

So, how do you start? Begin by listening to your own needs. Maybe you need an hour alone to read in silence, a long walk in nature, or simply to say no to an additional commitment. It's not about grand gestures; it's the small choices you make every day that add up to a well-cared-for you.

Remember, saying a (loving) "No" isn't a rejection; it's an act of self-respect and love. It's acknowledging your limits and honoring your wellbeing, which, in turn, allows you to be there for others in a more meaningful way.

Now, here's a question for you to ponder: What's one small step you can take today to prioritize your wellbeing?

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* To gain more inspiration and motivation for your personal growth journey, I recommend visiting my SMART goals page, which offers a wide range of goal ideas to help you establish new aspirations and achieve greater success in life. This list was crucial in the development of my own life goals list, consisting of 100 goals that I pursued for ten years.

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Tal Gur is an author, founder, and impact-driven entrepreneur at heart. After trading his daily grind for a life of his own daring design, he spent a decade pursuing 100 major life goals around the globe. His journey and most recent book, The Art of Fully Living, has led him to found Elevate Society.

 
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